When we finally understand that the only way to gain what we've been seeking from the inside is by generating it ourselves from the inside, we become the master of life.
When we finally understand that "being in love" is "being in need," we've achieved a new level of awareness. No, there's nothing wrong with how we perceive being in love, but human love and universal love are so far apart in frequency, one could never recognize---or attract---the other. Love is not between our legs; it is the cosmic stuff of which we are made. We must find it now, for it is the greatest yearning we have within us. It is also our greatest fear, for it means touching that which we are.
Cosmic love is not an emotion, it is the primal force of all life, the fundamental energy of which we all are made. So we can never "find" love; we can only "be" it. And therein lies the secret. No one is as capable of loving us as we are capable of loving ourselves. We must learn to flow it out from us in order to feel it inwardly. Once we find it internally, then we can enhance it with someone else, a partner. But as long as we keep looking outside for that warmth, that tingle of joy, that perceived safety, we will never find the feeling we so desperately seek. As long as we feel unloved to begin with, there's no way we can attract that love. Sex? Yes! Love? No. Pure physics. It just can't happen.
So where do we begin? For openers, we've been loving Self every time we raised our frequency. But to be more specific, here are a few things to remember.
1. Remember that you are worthy of anything you can imagine.
2. When thinking about a regret, find a feeling that feels better.
3. Make a decision to be a lover rather than one wanting to be loved.
If you are showing loving appreciation TO someone, then you are flooding yourself with that frequency of light, and you will never notice that their river is not currently flowing to you. (P.S.: as we become filled with our own love, many "special someone's" will come into our lives, quite different from what we've assembled in the past!)
4. Make yourself feel "in love" for just a few moments, every day.
5. Whatever you don't want in life, flood it with love (visa versa).
6. Flow this vibration of love out until you're cross-eyed.
7. Make a decision to love something about yourself, off and on, all day.
8. Most of all, feel the effervescence of love coming from the pit of your stomach, bubbling up all around you until you can actually feel the tingling, then flow it out from you.
9. Ask for help with learning how to flood yourself with this vibration.
10. Flood everyone with the vibration, then you become what you flow.
Though it may seem hard to believe, the time will come when it won't matter whether others love you or not, for you have now become the love that you sought.
Take good care
